Shocked!

Here since ages.
This was the blog I actually began with and the one which I used to update religiously.
Joined blogger just to speak about thinks I couldn't take. Somehow my aim,  my actual purpose got deviated...

But for good.

I'd have never written another post here. But something makes me do it all  over again.
Something affected me so much that even my so bloody indifferent self got a terrible shock.

At home we have this daily after supper sessions of watching crime patrol on you tube as a family.
Having watched almost all the episodes of the latest season we just went on to watch one of the last year's episodes yesterday.

And to my Shock, surprise, and what not I should tell you its refusing to go off my mind since last night.

I don't want to analyze or find reasons for why such a thing ever happened ...
Neither am I saying no one can ever do it.

Just plainly that It shocked me...

posting all three parts in sequence for you...

Eeshwar Allah......

Ishwar Allah Tere Jahan Mein Nafrat Kyon Hai Jung Hai Kyon

Oh God why is there so much of hatred and so many wars in your world?

Tera Dil To Itna Bada Hai Insaan Ka Dil Tang Hai Kyon

Your heart is so big...then why is a human heart so small....

Kadam Kadam Par Sarhad Kyon Hai Saari Zameen Jo Teri Hai

Why at every step there borders on the land of yours

  

Sooraj Ke Pehre Dharti Hai Phir Kyon Itni Andheri Hai

Sun is sheilding the Earth.....then why is so much of darkness here.

Is Duniya Ke Daaman Par Insaan Ke Lahoo Ka Rang Hai Kyon

Why is the world concealed with human blood?

  

Goonj Rahi Kitni Cheekhein Pyaar Ki Baatein kaun Sunein

Cries of despair echo.... who will hear the cry of love

 
Toot Rahe Hain Kitne Sapne Inke Tukde Kaun Chune

So many dreams are broken.... who will put them together

Dil Ke Darwaazon Par Taaley Taalon Par Zank Hai Kyon

Doors of the heart are locked ..and why is there rust on those doors

It's not about india alone........It's about the world.  

the song says it in full......I have nothing more to say...........

except that this brought me tears.....

but tears won't help.....what will help is the inner desire..to be non-violent......:)

Global warming ........and.....INJUSTICE!!

When the temperature was low ..people bought Fridges and AC s for prestige.. now ultimately what has happened...It has become so hot..that we cannot live without these.

We used ...now we have to use......slavery......kind of at least.

Another point...

We see injustice everywhere...
Hah!

People who have never used fridge or Ac...Why are they suffering the heat??

Don't you think that is injustice??

ps:) had scheduled it for this tym.....

"I'm a Complan girl"

"Boost is the secret of my energy"
"Sprite:seedhi baat baaki sab bakwaas"(I might be wrong with the perfect lines)

"Bsnl....Connecting India".
"Kitkat...break toh banta hi hei".


So as we all know ads are shot after the companies have their products ready.

That means from the result they try and find the process. The process is when they describe ways why the product is good. Like the ad in which Aamir khan explains why Tata Sky plus is good?

Rationalization eh?

So these days we also see ads by various political parties. Explaining why to vote for their party.

Do I have to explain? I know you are intelligent enough to understand what I am trying to say :P

LET YOUR VOTE BE A PIERCING ARROW..............THAT HAS THE ABILITY TO PENETRATE ALL EVILS.........

The world stands in need........

"The world stands in need of liberation my Lord
it still has to learn to love
the dumb and the deaf
the blind and the lame
all need to feel your healing touch.

There are those who have eyes who refuse to see
there inhumanity to men
there are those who have ears who refuse to hear
the cries of men in agony.

There are those who have mouths who refuse to speak
against injustice done to men.
There are those who have hands who refuse
to reach them out in love and brotherhood.

There are those who have talents..they do
not use to build a true community.
and we all know that we have the
talent to love but keep it buried in ourselves."

This is not my piece of work.......

But has surely inspired me....... am sharing it with all of you....

Don't you think we need to take more steps in our life to help the needy?

Happy Republic Day!

Happy Republic Day To all of You ...






ps:) a scheduled post again, I wanted to wish you all on this day so scheduled it..as you know I am taking a long break of 2 months or so may be more. For more info on that check this link HERE.

RELIGION..as a DRAMA..HUH ..!!

Some time ago in a religious place...2 girls...restless..totally..pay no attention to what is said or done there...just worried about their..clothes.






What kind of a belief is that?





Its better not to go to any religious place .... I don't think that such a devotion is of any use...I just can't take people who just go to any temple mosque or church just as a fulfillment of a ritual.





I have also seen people who believe just by going to such places or by doing certain rituals you are close to GOD....






Then you can do all kinds of injustice what the hell!!





Any way ...I don't find it correct ...



Ps:) This is my 50th post..here..I would like to thank all my readers..to make it possible.....

I love my state...and so all states are my state ..huh!

So today I am discussing something which really can make you ponder....



I would ask you all a question...



All places in India suppose..becomes one..I mean if for example all the states become like any one state then what would be the situation?



Here I see many people who want to make this place as their native state...they still eat the specialties of their place they wear what they used to in their native states..huh!



I am not saying that when you go to live in a different place you need to forget your native state once in a while you can have all like you have it at your place but not always...



what do you think in this aspect??

The useless HOCH* POCH* !!

My purpose is to discuss things which I really can't take...huh!







The latest and of course the most important issue now is about the terror attack on 26th of Nov







See I completely agree that...the Govt is at fault.







But..then what comes to my mind when I see people blaming is...the death of Hemanth Karkare and Ashok Kamat..








One of the news channels brought out that the Bullet proof jackets supplied to them were of very poor quality....








IS IT NOT..more corruption..than The GOVT's fault...?????







If the people themselves don't have the conscience and fill their pockets illegally then what can any party in power do..







These days the main news is the people's protest over the issue...







very good!!...the government is getting pinched every now and then...but then again...I heard many angry comments..from people..







Anger is not the only solution..to anything..instead the terrorists would take benefit of the adrenaline Hike up..and also nothing constructive would happen....








I am not for any party...I really am not...but I also believe that expression of anger and usage impolite phrases can just become a breaking news in media but not a stepping stone to the change of system of the country.







What do ya' think??

I love you but can't marry you..sorry!!

After seeing the title you all might surely think that this is about how people get cheated in love.
No it is not.. you all have misunderstood it completely..



So let me proceed with what it really is...



You must have seen in films that the hero and the heroine have to face so many obstacles to marry their love...but at last they do marry....do you think it happens in real life? No it doesn't ..it really doesn't.



As we all know that love just happens its kind of out of our consciousness...I know here I sound stupid...but isn't that the truth....



what I am trying to say is people fall in luv..many do..but does the society accept them if they aren't of the same caste and same religion and many other bloody similarities...It sounds a bit idiotic to me that when two people are in love then why the hell are they stopped to marry...



The beautiful feeling becomes a curse for all...ah! in that case we should all fall in love only after knowing the details of the person.....why don't people look for a nice human being rather than looking for the person of same caste or religion...



I don't think God has any problem if people of two different castes marry



Most awful!!

Parents slaves..we slaves...huh!

These days we usually see that when kids grow up and start earning..or are married.they just want their parents to be at any old age home...Its very very bad ..but the young generation has no feelings for them they just mind their own business..and think that its better that one or two members are less...they save money.....have such people ever thought that if their parents thought like them then they would have been be no where.. Ahh!! I sound too unpractical na?? huh!



But that is not my issue.....my issue has two sides ..



I say that parents should be respected and loved ..but do you think we should be slaves...



Yes I have seen homes where even after the kids have grown up..all the decisions are taken by the grandfather and he's still the head of the family..yes he is..but I really feel that the grandparents should now leave the household responsibilities to their children.



you can put forth your opinions too.

Characterless ... Men??

We all know that a woman’s character is a widely discussed topic…
In such discussions we do come up with some ridiculous answers …



But today my discussion is not going to be about women…



This post comes up as an aftermath of the discussion I had with my friends yesterday…



We were just asking each other about the favorite actor (male) and actor (fem).



This is an ordinary question…I asked one of ma college mates…who’re her dad’s favorite actors (male and fem).



She answered the male actor question saying its Amitabh Bacchan…but for the female she said my dad isn’t like that…



I can’t really understand such concepts… liking a female actor…does it make u loose character?



What I feel about this issue is…the dad is very much like that…that is why he’s hiding such stuffs and not revealing this to his kids.



What do You think…?

The Purity...

I have seen many times in front of my eyes but never understood the reason behind this issue of mine.


Let me share with you all one of my experiences on this issue.


A friend of mine was being constantly asked for friendship by a boy of my class. She also wanted to be his friend as she thought he was a very good boy, but… I don’t know what stopped her from accepting the offer.
Anyway this was her own choice I don’t blame her for that, but I do blame her for the thing she did after that...she went to him the very next day and tied him a Rakhi.


I really respect the relationship between a brother and sister it is one of the purest and the sweetest relationships between a boy and a girl, but I do think that the relationship of friendship between a boy and a girl is also one of the purest relationships we have on this Earth.



Why should we always search for purity in a brother-sister relationship,Is that not a wrong notion of ours?


Don’t friendships have the same sweetness and purity that is found in a brother sister relationship.



Why this pretension and mix up?



Please think it out...

Marriage ...the legal stamp...huh!!

This is going to be a very sensitive topic and I know that many of my readers won't agree to it at all...

Marriages are made in heaven....see I am not going to talk about the heavenly things now.

Hmm we always have heard about rapes..as forced intercourse with a woman..but we never think that married woman too are forced to have sex....

Is this not also a kind of rape...

Many women are forced to have sex.

Those who force their wives into sex ..don't they have to be called animals..

or marriage gives legalization to every such husband....

Just because someone is your wife can you treat her like a thing ...a sex doll...is it the only purpose for which people marry...
is there no emotional and mental interaction...

Have ur say...

I am ready to take up any good constructive argument...

Ban Mobiles ......huh!!

The old times have gone and we have changed a lot. With the advancement of technology we have got many good facilities and some really bad effects have also come up.


I am talking about mobile phones . Its a thing without which many cannot live even.


But I am not going to talk about this attachment which has turned to slavery.



Rather I will talk about is the most modern crime..(at least according to me).



These days we see specially in Colleges and Senior Schools that boys take pics of girls and swap it with some other pics. This later on goes to the internet and then what... the girl's life is gone. Is it gone? No, u r mistaken tat's not the issue.



So what happens many people who personally use mobile and such different new things brought out by science and technology say all crap about it.



I recently heard many of my friends saying that mobile should be banned.



Just because people take pics and put it on internet is it necessary to ban mobile which has many more important uses.



The thing is when they see such pics on the net why don't they just think " oh! sum fool must have done it" Sounds funny but it has sense.



Why to take the big step as banning mobiles huh!


I don't understand this.....the perspective is very wrong.



What do u think can be done?

The Ideal!!

Today is October 2nd. The birthday of Mahatma Gandhi. I hope you all remember this day.



These days we see that many of the Indians feel proud to say that they don't know who Gandhi ji is.


I just hope that such people may recognize the real value and status of Gandhi ji.



I believe in many of his ideals and follow them too.



I hope you all also follow his ideals.



Please think what are we doing. India is so lucky to have such a man whom the whole world respects but do we value him?



Just a big question to ponder. Think it out.



I am not going to put up a long post but just wish that let many more such great men be born.



VAISNAV JAN

Sorry!

The post P&P factor got deleted by itself. I guess its some admin problems.
sorry for the inconvenience.
I will put a post as soon as possible.
And a big sorry to the those who had commented on this post.

I want your opinion .....

As my every post this one too will have an incident attached with it. As all my posts are based on what I see in my day to day life and not just what I hear or read in the news.



This happened sometime ago may be about a year or so. The thing is some of the rowdies at our place troubled one of my classmates. They passed some comments on her. She as any other ordinary girl didn't pay much of a heed to it. Even I would do that. But the thing that she did not scold or say anything to the boys wasn't much liked by one of my other friend's parent(father). He actually came to know about the incident from his daughter(my other friend).



The very next day I saw this girl(the father's daughter) was no more in conversation with the other girl(the so called victim).


I was surprised... as they were pretty good friends!


I asked her for the reason. She told me "when I told my dad about the incident he advised me to be away from the company of such girls" What does this such girls mean?


Now from the background which I come has never taught me to be as such so I was literally taken aback.


Can you all please tell me some reasons for why this happens and be sure that you all put up both sides impartially. As I believe truth can't be found out unless you know all the concerned aspects.

Another Valuable Award!!!!

Hey all I have exams that's why I won't be available for a few days .
This post is about another award i got.
Thanks to Vishesh for such a sweet award. Liked it simply.
Here's it**




So now its my turn to pass on I pass on to


1. Saranya


2. Aneesh


3. Prashant


4. Hemanth


5. Neha(joie)


6. Smriti


7. Nithin(kochu)


8. Pooja


9. Anwesa


10.Ayushi


11.Tara

Sex, Marriage & AIDS!!!!

Today's post is aimed to convey an important message through things mainly responsible for it.
The reason for this post is a phone call from one of my very close friends from Jaipur.
She rang me up two three days ago asking me for some serious advice.
She said that she has a friend I mean a classmate who is deeply in love with some boy and wants to marry him.
The question here is certainly not about the marriageable age.
The question is not completely about leaving such good opportunities of career and such a bright future and making marriage an important issue.
And my question is also not about the absence of maturity needed for a marriage.
And again I would say the question is not also about it being real love or just a mere infatuation.
The question is about AIDS.
You might think how do I connect marriage at a young age and AIDS.
How is this possible that the people of my age group become mature enough to abstain from sex even after marriage. Are they mature enough to know about condoms? Are they mature enough to decide that they have to do an HIV test before submitting themselves to the relationship.
I have seen many of my friends don't have sufficient knowledge about sex... a teenager should have.
Its really awful that we ...I mean the class of people who mainly indulge in early marriages abstain from talking about the issue openly.
I have seen when in biology classes the chapter reproduction is taught teachers also don't find it difficult to explain certain facts.
And of course at homes parents just don't answer to child's queries on the topic.
All these are small reasons which ultimately lead to more amount of people having AIDS.
Why are we making mistakes after mistakes on such serious issues.
Another shocking fact is many of the people belonging to educated class the so called modern class don't even care to do an HIV test before marriage.
They are often busy in matching stars and what heavenly bodies depict about the relationship and financial status equality and so on.
First handle what is on the Earth then go after the universe!!
Huh! then what is the use of superficial modernity.
After all modernity is not in wearing short clothes... wat say?


This post was meant to convey a lot a whole lot!
I hope I have played my part but now it is your turn to please watch the following video and pass on your very valuable comments to me and all who pass by.


Ps:-)The video is about an unfaithful husband.
No its not completely related to my post but has a good message in it. please do watch.





ps:)well I am sorry for the error out there i mentioned the boys age as 18.
and thanx to vishesh for kind of reminding me with his comment. The error is corrected now.