Happy Independence day!!

A very happy Independence Day to you India.
Today is the 62nd Independence Day.
Rejoice all….. be happy not for one single day but for all the days from now.
On this day in 1947 we got independence from the foreign rule.
Do we really know the value of this day or we just count it as one of our holidays.
Do we listen to what the president speaks on this day.
Many people don’t even know how much freedom we enjoy.
Do we have to think twice to give our opinion in public?
Do we have not right to move freely around in the society without someone putting barriers.
Do we have to take permission from somebody to buy something?
Don’t we have the right to support the authority we like?
We have so many privileges so many beautiful things here in our Country.
But do we value them.
Today what we have to do is to value them ....learn to value them
Take inspiration from those selfless leaders who did not even consider their lives important for the sake of an Independent India.
so....
....Let the gossip session of women turn into a session which discusses about the country.
Let the new generation try to work for India itself. Rather considering it a pride to work for other countries.
All the government employees try to reach office on time.
Try not to give or take bribes.
Try not to encourage against crime.
Try to respect the national flag not only at a surface level but at real depth.
A very happy Independence day to all once again.
Try to at least accomplish any one of these till the next Independence Day.





JAI HIND.






Jana Gana Mana (Indian National Song) Thou Art the Ruler of All - The best video clips are right here

Please...... take my daughter....... I'll pay for it!!!!

So marriages brings a glow to a family. With all sorts of decorations and all we all feel happy at those times. But the biggest agony of girl's parents during the marriages is dowry.

The girl's family works hard to make arrangements. The girl's family is often seen with their heads down in front of the boys family. Then if any arrangement, any, like food, decoration etc has some little fault in it then they are often rebuked and insulted by the boy's family. After all they are the boy's family they can do anything huh! .... collars high.
Its a shame that we have different status for both the families. Just being a boy's family is enough.... an honour is attached to it. WHY??? It is a big shame for the rich Indian culture.Huh!
Even after the girl's family is the one sending their daughter the important member of their family to the boy's house why are they the ones to pay the dowry????
Is it like a price given to keep garbage at someone's house?
I know this custom started as a good means to give a share of the family property to the daughter.
But now what is its relevance when girls have to be legally given a share of the family property. It should be hers not his and his family's.
I have heard of some people who don't educate their daughter's just to save money for dowry and what happens is if there is some tension between the husband and wife then wife is always the one to compromise because she is at his mercy. she cannot go back parents won't accept.
I don't really know when will this end.

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Title of this blog will resume after the Independence day.

Apparent Depth !!!!!!

Many people believe that if a person is smiling and joking then that person is superficial and if a person is serious and always rude then that person has some depth.


.....When KBC part 3 came on tv then many said "what is this Shahrukh Khan is just joking and just wasting time and is not like big B who used to be serious all this is western impact". Without denying the fact that Big B wasn't superficial I would say even if SRK was a little more joking and smiling he was also not superficial. Those who have seen the show very well know how many serious things he spoke in that joking mood.
Now my point is though both of them went on different ways but they both were very serious hosts their own ways.
I am saying this because I have seen many people who look serious but are really superficial.
So its really really wrong to associate depth with seriousness. As our actions are which tell us whether we are superficial or not and not what we pretend to be or what we show others.