Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Shut Their Mouths (contd).........

Today I will give you another example about how inquisitive the society is. The society is bound to interfere.
For example if a girl’s marriage is getting delayed due to finance or other problems, we see that the people out there start talking of her badly. They say “ may be she’s having an affair” or they say “may be someone used her”. And what do the parents do? They marry her off as soon as they can to shut the people’s mouth.

I would surely like to tell you this is not restricted to women. Men are also often ridiculed and insulted for issues like unemployment etc.

Another example which I have noticed only in the place where I studied. In my neighbourhood daily some 6 -7 women sit outside their house and pass comments on whoever passed by. They commented on the walk the clothes etc. And I tell it feels really awful.

If society changes then social evils like rape etc will not haunt the victim as it does now.
In this the main part is of the victim who by coming forward can shut such ridiculing mouths.

16 comments:

Nithin Jayan said...

I donno if fevicol is effective on lip surfaces...4 ders no effective antidote 4 this 'public mouth' menace...wat u've written is absolutely correct...but mouths can't b shut...(minor contradiction:I won't marry off my kid just 2 shut others' mouths...)

One solution is to turn a deaf ear 2 comments.Coz if u r out 2 sway wid de comments n change...u'll b scientific miracle...being de most randomly mutating matter...

Unemployment is a prob only 2 an extend...'coz if u r ready 2 shed off yer ego u will earn 4 at least one sandwich per day...unless a youth is personally responsible 4 his 'fate' there ain't a need 2 ridicule him

N 4 de 6-7 women in yer place...stop scrapping here...go cane their butts...its sumthin u 'can' do...!!!else promise me free transportation n stay i'll come der...hi hi

as 4 de last para of de post: society won't change much...rape cases(sorry i intend no vulgarity) will never be 'isolated incidents' any day...coz that would need 'genetic mutation(wrt hormones)' or 'global induction of impotence!!!'

VICTIMS take note...u r on ur own legs!!! none will b out der 4 longer periods, once yer news no more appear in papers...

Nithin Jayan said...

n pal..let me THANK u...4 creating such a wonderful place to spit out thoughts...gr8 job...n i'll do my part...dis page requires more traffic...

Anonymous said...

u have brot up a good issue. keep writing like this.

shobhna said...

Nithin thanks am happy that u like it.

shobhna said...

Anonymous
Thanx for the encouragement.

knuckleduster_z said...

To be honest, I did like many of your posts. They made me notice once again, things I have gotten too used to. :) nice work. A lot of things are awfully wrong now, especially in this State.

'For I have sworn thee fair
And thought thee bright,
Who art as dark as hell,
As black as night!'

not the perfect quote, but it will do here. Good day!

Aneesh said...

Don't care about what others say. 'coz they can say anything and when it comes to something they won't even help. Just value the suggestion of someone who value you, others are just ____.
it's not when something awful happens, when we get into a good postion also, these people will spread rumours that we reached that position by some OTHER means. Who cares what they tell, after telling for someday they'll shut themselves, I don't think there is any possible medicine for this, 'coz even in the developed countries these things happen.

shobhna said...

@ aneesh
Thanks frnd

shobhna said...

KDuster:

Thanks

Anita said...

Gud post keep it up shobhi

shobhna said...

@ Anita:

Thanks for reading and commenting.

Anonymous said...

Im here!

You are keeping a good blog -a problem play! Keep writing and good lucks!

Saranya

joiedevivre said...

in logo ko toh...ahhh
dese stupid womens are too much
one best thing is just to ignore dem..such narrow thinkers can never think out of dese issues..
such people never grow up...

shobhna said...

Thanks neha

CutePooja said...

those women are absolutely outrageous...why dont people get a life of their own???
n stop poking their noses in others personal matters...

shobhna said...

@ pooja
ye buddy u r rite but how can we stop such crores to live an independent life rather than being so horribly inquisitive.